Be kind, not nice
Nov 8, 2023
Taking a break from the Daily Spark; returning November 16th, 2023.
Being kind is about acting in the interest of those we care about even when it seems uncomfortable.
Being nice is about avoiding discomfort even when it is against the interest of those we care about.
Kindness versus niceness is the difference between offering an honest critique to a teammate when asked so that they can grow and telling them that their work is great to avoid a fleeting moment of discomfort.
Being nice is short-sighted and rarely helps; being kind is long-term and compassionate.
Be kind, not nice.
