Can I resolve this a different way?
Being a fierce creature of certain habits, I experienced a rather humorous amount of befuddlement at the gym this morning when I discovered that the phone app that stores my exercise plan wasn’t loading.
Some network error, apparently.
I actually entertained the ludicrous proposition (though not-so-seemingly ludicrous at the time) leaving the gym and coming back later. Mumbling in mind something to the effect, “I’ll come back later when I know the exact plan and can log my numbers!”
Thankfully reason came to the rescue and I asked myself a simple question to pull back my rapidly spiraling anxiety: “Can I resolve this a different way?”
“Of course I can”, I told myself with a sigh of a relief.
I couldn’t remember the exact workout plan, but I remember most of it.
I can’t track my numbers in the app, but I can log it in my notes to reference later.
Rigid requirements were holding me back. By relaxing them, I could move forward.
All of this is a benign example of a skill I think is valuable in any area of life:
Rigidity is the enemy of adaptability.
Conversely, flexibility and a willingness to be creative with your requirements are ingredients for resilience and progress.